IVF ki umar nikal gayi? 35 pe bhi log aise kyun bolte hain?

Aaj toh ek aur function se aayi hoon aur dil bahut bhaari hai. Ek relative ne seedha poochha, "Ab toh IVF ki bhi umar nikal gayi, kya kar rahi ho?" Umar nikal gayi? Main toh bas 35 ki hoon yaar. Jaise maine koi gunaah kar diya ho. Unhe kya pata 2 baar embryo transfer ke baad har baar pregnancy test pe do line ke liye rona kya hota hai.

Ghar aake rone ka mann kar raha hai. Pati bahut supportive hai, lekin woh bhi relatives ke saamne kuch nahi bol paate. Ab is mahine se doctor ne FET ki taiyari shuru ki hai, hormones ke injections chalu hain. Physically toh sah rahe hain, mentally nahi.

Sabse zyada dard tab hota hai jab log bolte hain, "Relax karo, tabhi hoga." Jaise main stress isliye kar rahi hoon kyunki mujhe maza aa raha hai. Ya fir "Adopt kar lo" — jaise yeh decision itna aasaan ho.

Mujhe samajh nahi aata, logon ko yeh sab poochne ka koi haq kyun lagta hai? Kya tum logon ko bhi aise sawaalon ka saamna karna padta hai? Aur agar koi answer hai toh pls batao, kyunki ab toh main jawab dene ke liye bhi thak gayi hoon.